For years I would make excuses in my head that why were just being funny but in reality they were jealous and acting out and making me doubt my choices in life. Edit: you're good and wise people, thanks a lot for the replies :), [–]woops69 73 points74 points75 points 1 year ago (1 child). Thinning hair and baldness is permanent. I’m working on all of these as we speak but it gets harder and you have less energy as you age. [–]Kingmudsy 45 points46 points47 points 1 year ago (13 children). 2. The AskMen editorial team thoroughly researches & reviews the best gear, services and staples for life. There was a TED talk that I listened to several years ago that had a similar topic. [–]jtl090179 362 points363 points364 points 1 year ago (19 children). At what point in your life did the “I’m an adult” switch flip on? I would like to extend this a bit. [–]wtmhMale[] 439 points440 points441 points 1 year ago (60 children). The AskMen editorial team thoroughly researches & reviews the best gear, services and staples for life. Worrying about things you have no control over isn't just a waste of your own time, it's an unnecessary drain on your mental wellbeing too. It's so strange. I settled down by the time I was probably 24-25. Not super harsh, but I was a little bummed out when the athletes my age started retiring. I have intrinsic worth. It can be a harsh thing to think about, the fact that nobody cares about the majority of things that happen in your life but it's also pretty liberating. I may not be thinking about someone constantly but I definitely think about the shit they have done when I run into them or see them again. In a way it’s good because it forces you to be more independent, but sometimes I miss having that part of my social life. I can not control my wife. [–]ZippyTheRoach 157 points158 points159 points 1 year ago (15 children). Booze Food. But I'm gonna keep trying--and if you're struggling to find success, you should keep trying too. Frequently asked questions will be removed at our discretion. [–]DiscipulusAeternam 51 points52 points53 points 1 year ago (12 children). Well, the pounds start coming and they don’t stop coming. (Edit) Im not going to fix the typo. Worried about what people think about you? It's easier to give yourself to others when you already have everything. [–]HumanGuyPerson69420 452 points453 points454 points 1 year ago* (63 children), Haemorrhoids will happen. Home. The plan may not be 100% correct, but the best you can do is set a direction and adjust along the way. Once you have a plan, there’s no more cause for worry. The warmup for the workout could take longer than the workout itself. It means that you made a mistake, and you have the emotional recognition that it was a mistake. 2.4m members in the AskMen community. Them us. dude, fucking same. Pay attention to the ridges and don’t brush too hard. Recognize poisonous people. Sometimes automod fucks up - if you think it did, you can message us, but if you roll up to the modmail with a fucking attitude, we're not going to indulge you. This includes external sites looking to farm responses for content. You don’t really give much shit about most people, nor do most people give a shit about you. You will reach a time in your life where your parents will get old, and eventually need your help, whether it's wanted or not. Find a hobby you love and join groups with the same hobby. All those video game achievements you wasted time on? [–]SailingBacterium 184 points185 points186 points 1 year ago (11 children). The type-a networker just moved away and our group is struggling to stay together. I'm the reason why my family can't stand me, and I could be doing a lot more to mend those broken relationships. Most of the things I remember and regret, I did to myself through lack of awareness and commitment. r/AskWomen: AskWomen: A subreddit dedicated to asking women questions about their thoughts, lives, and experiences; providing a place where all … Story time. If you see a 10/10 woman on a dating app, what are your first thoughts? I am confident in my own being and my own value. If too expensive maybe a free clinic or an online consultation would do. [–]Jek_Porkinz 183 points184 points185 points 1 year ago (26 children). So true. [–]PallyCecil 117 points118 points119 points 1 year ago (0 children). [–]virtualfisher 75 points76 points77 points 1 year ago (0 children). Death is real and universal; time waits for no man. Good news is if you quit it goes away just as quickly if it isn't too late. He looks 50, I look 25. The only thing I would add to this is to practice contentment NOW. Take some of that energy to build yourself up once in a while. Want to make your life better? I stopped talking to them on a casual level (I still have to talk to them for work which is fine) and keep it at a professional and civil matter. Now I feel that they didn't know what to do and were trying their best. Media. I do not need external validation. No matter how much times I tell myself “it isn’t that bad, it’s only in my head, no one really cares.” I still find myself very anxious and nervous. [–][deleted] 423 points424 points425 points 1 year ago (23 children). Truth. [–]GomboAndGimlee 782 points783 points784 points 1 year ago (152 children). If not, you should build one today. You have so much time to spend with them now and enjoy the people they've become, and if they have children you'll still be young enough to enjoy your grandchildren in every way and to see them grow up too. The hardest part about this is that it can’t be solved by isolating yourself, but rather you must find a healthy balance of being open to people while avoiding being taken advantage of. It's also OK to look after yourself first. It's been awful but hopefully I'm building a better me, [–]BenIsProbablyAngry 24 points25 points26 points 1 year ago (12 children). The key to happiness is lowering your expectations. I thought that, once I got awesome enough, the world would be mine to save, and I could just coast on my skills and aura of awesomeness. now im going to use it all the time and pretend i created it. Everything you need to be happy and fulfilled is always available to you at any stage of life. At that point, look up youtube videos on smart saving and investing and I’m sure you’ll be able to buy a house and pay off your loans. Put effort into some solid relationships with friends and/or family. [–]mathmagician9 88 points89 points90 points 1 year ago (10 children). So much to do, so much to see, so what's wrong with eating a pastry? Media/News Company. This continued for 10 years, for 1-2 times per year, until I got operated and had them removed. I've come to learn that those embarrassing experiences were the times I learned lessons, and if they hadn't happened then (when I was younger) they would have happened later (when I would have been older, and the consequences more severe). Really, they're only harsh truths if you're unprepared for them. The drama/bullshit it your life ends the exact moment you decide you are done. I’m now playing catch up in the game of life 15 years in arrears. [–]nom_nom44Male 216 points217 points218 points 1 year ago (5 children). Some folks get bent out of shape when they can't help everyone, but really, nobody can help everybody all the time. It gets harder to make friends when you get older as a guy and loneliness can be SO CRIPPLING. The hardest one was realising that I had caused my own depression by lying to myself. Thank you kind stranger! TL;DR Most adults are children in adult bodies. No matter how hard you work, someone will have criticism. It's very liberating and greatly reduced my social anxiety, [–]LostAndAloneVan 38 points39 points40 points 1 year ago (3 children). I’ll probably never climb another mountain, at least not without some intense physical conditioning. It seems a little drawn out so idk if I’d necessarily recommend it, but the big thing it helped me realize is that it’s ridiculous to try not to fail. Used to always mess my back up in my 20's. I stopped a few years ago and my body changed. I started getting back pain at 22 sobs, [–]skitchbeatz 438 points439 points440 points 1 year ago (115 children). [–]bloodflartold man Floyd 75 points76 points77 points 1 year ago (0 children). I cannot control my job. Beyond that, focus on working on your own confidence, health, gym, etc and people will be attracted to. How often, if at all, do you think about the people you casually dated in the past? They’re literally the most important part of the group. [–]UnclePutin 106 points107 points108 points 1 year ago (9 children). The lesson to be learned is that pain is unavoidable. Obviously demand can change considering the time we live in. Education matters in certain specialized fields but personality and networking mean a lot as well. It’s a really tough mindset to adapt. You may feel young and think that you are still 20, but the young women you are trying to flirt with see a pervy old dude. Search the subreddit. AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. You’ll eventually find your destination. Your body is like a car that you can never trade in. Home; Book lists; About; Best products; 0 items-0; Most upvoted books. Yea what's up with that? https://trib.al/5DGMzVk If we fail and give up, we’re not doing ourselves any favors. In the early stages of dating, have you experienced a woman grow instantly more or less attracted to you when they found out your financial status? Booze Food. [–]Spartandonovan100 57 points58 points59 points 1 year ago (3 children). It's heartbreaking for you and embarrassing for them, but to be there (not just in company but to wake up in the middle of the night to change their catheter or to lift them out the bath) being there in their last few years will bring so much comfort. The AskMen editorial team thoroughly researches & reviews the best gear, services and staples for life. The friends you have aren't permanent so don't break your back trying to keep them, The party will still happen if I'm not there so don't beg people to beg me to be there because that's pathetic, Mostly everything is a choice and I either choose to make things happen or I choose to let things happen but whatever I do it's always my decision so don't blame other people, Edit: thanks for the silver. Living your life to be ready to give up everything at a moment's notice sounds horrible. [–]40ozSmasher 376 points377 points378 points 1 year ago (8 children). Best Compression Shirts Boost Your Athletic Performance & Minimize Skin Irritation With These Top Tops. These celebs show off the best of athleisure, effortlessly mixing comfort and style. 2.4m members in the AskMen community. I have 2 herniated discs and regularly deadlifting/squatting saved my back. [–]Seanypat 73 points74 points75 points 1 year ago (0 children). My fiancée likes to paint and sew, so she has a lot of communities that are the same. Wow. When my parents were the age that I am now, they had a 5 year old and a 7 year old. It's about how lucky you get. [–]sr603Male 190 points191 points192 points 1 year ago* (9 children). Learning to care about the things that really matter and not trivial nonsense was a huge turning point in my life. Most of your problems are your own fault. [–]mcflurry10s 41 points42 points43 points 1 year ago (1 child). Entertainment. 50+ f here on the sexual irrelevance...what age bracket are you trying to be relevant to? Entertainment. Everything is temporary. You're just making up the rules as you go!". 4. Do not tie your own happiness to them. 160 points161 points162 points 1 year ago (31 children). Then, you get your Master's, and you realize you don't know anything. Thanks so much! [–]Oblivionka[S] 311 points312 points313 points 1 year ago (34 children). Usually 2 weeks of hell before they return normal and inside my ass. The years seem shorter. Wisaime. If I can't come up with a lesson, chances are that it wasn't all that important. Keep your question concise. Learn to be loving, forgiving, sympathetic, patient, thankful, and compassionate inside towards yourself and the world will reflect that. I would’ve saved myself a lot of regret if I didn’t think that tv dating was realistic. Nobody cares about 90%+ of the stuff you convince yourself is vital, [–]NuclearMaterialMale 3063 points3064 points3065 points 1 year ago (153 children). If you'd like to view another AskMen edition than the one you are directed to based on location, simply use the sticky links in the "WORLD OF ASKMEN" Edition Select, located in left navigation menu of any AskMen International Edition (eg: US … [–]diemunkiesdie 89 points90 points91 points 1 year ago (11 children), Definitely varies. It becomes possible to pull a muscle while taking a piss or a dump. Same. I watched my father in law develop alzheimers and pass away in the span of a few years and holy shit was that the scariest thing I've ever seen. Read the Frequently Asked Questions wiki and do a search before asking a question. OMG yes - my dad was flirting with this young shop attendant and it was pure cringe. In the famous words of Jean-Luc Picard, "It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. I believe people don’t care to a certain extent. [–]MyPunsSuck 432 points433 points434 points 1 year ago (19 children). While this is pretty dead set on guitar, I’d be willing to bet that there are similar communities for pretty much all interests. Their support team is very responsive and they cater your concerns no matter what the time it is. It's time to stop. I love my mom and dad dearly. Or "lol there's that person who did that stupid thing at the party last month. You should really have anchors, rituals, practices and systems in place that you kind of run on autopilot to keep going when times get rough or to get out of a bind. Totally agree. Doesn't matter if it's softball or dungeons and dragons, lots of new friends are there. So I try and appreciate the little things with them now while we can. ViralHog. You need to take responsibility for your own actions, interactions with others, or lack thereof. If they don't do something for you, they may just be a leach off of you. ive never heard this before. Support These BIPOC-Owned Businesses This Holiday Season Read More. My parents were beaten down by life in their own way that turned them into the people they are, and that meant that sometimes they got it wrong with how my brother and I were parented. When im gonna be 60 and still make pillow forts. The 16 Best White Sneakers for Summer 2019 Read More. [–]CptSandbag73 59 points60 points61 points 1 year ago (2 children). It's not that I've changed at 50+. Not all the guys are like that, but when they are young most guys are like that. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Unsure if the rules apply to you for your post/comment? Have a hobby, community or activity you can spend time on regularly. Best Askmen Reddit We have trained agents standing by so you can have live help from real people online or by phone. [–][deleted] 108 points109 points110 points 1 year ago (2 children). Hard decisions are hard because many times the multitudes of answers all work. They like to talk about how stupid it is to go back to college in my 30’s because it’s a waste of time and money. Still didn’t realize some of those harsh truths at 30, and needed a true health scare at 40 to help me wake up to the fact that I am not, in fact, made of iron. I appreciate it, [–][deleted] 303 points304 points305 points 1 year ago (17 children). I guess what I’m trying to say is people don’t have the time to care/dwell about your fuck ups but will remember it. People mostly don’t care that I’m redlining at their normal walking speed. [–]k_henryv 989 points990 points991 points 1 year ago (33 children). The lame news: even though nobody cares they'll all still criticize you and let you know how terrible you are. It was amazing! [–]wannaeatpizza 145 points146 points147 points 1 year ago (1 child), [–]kendollamar 349 points350 points351 points 1 year ago (28 children), [–]short_dude5ft3in 45520Answer Link4551 points4552 points4553 points 1 year ago (259 children). [–]BillyBatts83 299 points300 points301 points 1 year ago* (11 children). It's very odd. This is the difference between happiness and joy. Your abdominal wall, your glutes and spinal erectors all play a part in keeping your back strong and mobile. My novel has been rejected by close to a hundred agents and my webcomic has failed to attract much of an audience. My brother is 40, I'm 38. Nowadays, I’d love to go and start a little bar band, but I have too much going on at home to spend multiple nights out at practice and gigs. At 38 I've made more friends in the last 4 years than I did in the previous 10. With hundreds of shower gels available on the market, finding the best … There will be no magic moment that changes it all. [–]Digitallus1 204 points205 points206 points 1 year ago (11 children), Wouldn’t try to pretend you created it lol it’s an incredibly popular quote, [–]PillowTalk420 164 points165 points166 points 1 year ago (7 children), Yes, but you see, the people I see every day are uncultured swine and wouldn't have heard it before, just like I haven't. I had them the first time back in the day when I went in high school, when I was 18 yo. Still taking time to get used to the idea of it, but my life is so much better now! That I am the single common denominator in all of my life's problems. Even then, make time for it. Your mind can either be your best friend or your worst enemy. So, I am comfortable in the unease of uncertainty. Do not post pictures or ask questions looking for affirmation of your appearance or body features. Live one day at a time and accept you are just smart enough to be uncomfortable with shit but that doesn't mean it is always your responsibility to fix it. [–][deleted] 36 points37 points38 points 1 year ago (1 child). Ofc cause of generational differences they are all for that stuff but I was telling them if I don’t know this person I’m not gonna treat them any different from some random on the street. Acting on it is a whole different ball game, [–]Finger_in_mah_butt 236 points237 points238 points 1 year ago (47 children). don't read ahead if you're easily disgusted with these things. [–]Black_Lightnin 1016 points1017 points1018 points 1 year ago (48 children). 6. , [–]Littlebrownfoxx 112 points113 points114 points 1 year ago (3 children). [–]juliosmacedo 53 points54 points55 points 1 year ago (3 children), reaching this conclusion is quite simple actually. Time is slipping away. I started blaming(in my head) them for many of my insecurities. The creaking sounds you hear when getting up from sitting aren't always the chair. [–][deleted] 35 points36 points37 points 1 year ago (5 children). Always feel free to change your mind and decide to go a different way. Decide 100% that you are going to make it better. Finding purpose and meaning in life is overrated waste of time. Yep, plus you realize that all that glitters ain’t gold. If we fail, evaluate what went wrong, make changes, and try again, we can basically do anything. Of course for a non elite athlete you can still be competitive through your fourties. The trick is learning to recognize when you are done and to decide with your whole body and mind. Have a question about moderation, community rules, or the r/AskWomen sub? Invest for old age [–]LetsGetWeirdddddd 20 points21 points22 points 1 year ago (2 children), "Worrying is like a rocking chair; it gives you something to do but it doesn't get you anywhere. [–]dbd6604 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago (0 children), [–]Jeffreyrock 11 points12 points13 points 1 year ago (0 children). [–]needadvice1234554321 32 points33 points34 points 1 year ago (1 child). The worst thing to do would be to shut yourself in and never interact with new people. That question has a million answers, but the common thread across them all is that the way I thought caused the depression, but I insisted on seeing it the other way around. I too had the realisation recently that my parents didn't know exactly what to do and were trying whatever they find easy. Stop making excuses for shitty people for the sake of keeping them as “friends”. AskMen on Flipboard. I've decided I'd rather be hated for what I am than loved for a good lie, [–][deleted] 47180Answer Link4717 points4718 points4719 points 1 year ago*2 (383 children). And I mean that in the best way possible. Take care of it because you will never get another. I still feel fulfilled. You can't think of a gift idea? Either friends, family, or acquaintances. It’s been a lot of exercise to strengthen and relearn what used to work so intuitively, and it’s a mental game of accepting that my life is a little different now because I can’t rely on my ankle at all. [–]w027jlg 179 points180 points181 points 1 year ago (134 children), [–]disco54Male 1201 points1202 points1203 points 1 year ago*5 (109 children). [–]peterpam79 43 points44 points45 points 1 year ago (0 children). The online guitar communities on YouTube and Instagram are INSANELY welcoming, and the big trend right now is hardcore collaboration, so I’ve been making friends on discord servers and Facebook groups, and all sorts of places, where we all share our guitar/music ideas, and a ton of us collaborate. [–]FoolHardE-Love 98 points99 points100 points 1 year ago (4 children). And that's not even mentioning the sudden veer into sexual irrelevance. I'm just pretending to know what I'm doing and hoping I'm right, and my parents - everybody's parents - were/are doing the same thing. No rhyme inten...ded, [–]rumblepost 221 points222 points223 points 1 year ago (8 children). Your words. [–]Musoyamma 80 points81 points82 points 1 year ago (34 children). 20 years old rn and I've had to buy a new set of underwear twice already (since high school), Don't forget to review the FAQ, Common Topics, and Search Bar before posting. I also found that I have to find ways to keep things interesting because if I don't things just stay the same and slowly get boring. What marketing strategies does Askmen use? Ain't no rest for the wicked, and, God damn, am I exhausted. I'm 33 and this is the first year where I've tries to truly me real with myself about who and what I am. Try meetups, hobby groups, bars etc depending on your interests. When we get embarrassed about things that we've done, that's our brains telling us to try to avoid doing that thing again. If it was a mistake, learn from it and move on. The moment you stop learning and adapting, you begin to slow and die. For single guys in their 30s, your friend group starts to fade. Most popular books. Edit: Cheers for the gold, friend. I only see that as more of reason to stay on top of this with a lifelong learning approach. You can take a lot of pressure off yourself when you realise this. That other people will use your time, effort and money and not appreciate you at all. This one hit home. January 19, 2021 . [–]drbp 118 points119 points120 points 1 year ago (8 children). [–]cubano_exhilo 50 points51 points52 points 1 year ago (4 children). Do not ask for gift ideas; visit /r/gifts. You need more sleep. Usually it happened because of poor dietary choices, like eating too much chocolate or spicy food, and they hurted a lot. The idea that you can go from being basically a-ok to someone who cant walk, talk, or feed themselves is terrifying. © 2021 reddit inc. All rights reserved. That is not weakness. [–]L4r5man♂ 330 points331 points332 points 1 year ago (30 children), [–]OhNonoeje 43 points44 points45 points 1 year ago (4 children), I’m seventeen and my knees are already sub-par, [–]arthritictongue 494 points495 points496 points 1 year ago (22 children). Men who picked up and moved to a new city, how's the life there? Shit didn't matter to me, I was just chasing anything that would keep my dick warm for the night. Someone to love... That's a tough one, but in my life the times that I stopped worrying about love were usually the times that I found it. Or, soon-to-be-ex-wife. Yes. https://trib.al/M1lisPA Do things to take care of your health daily You start to realize that at 50 you don't have that much time left, you now understand that old people walk slow because their joints hurt, and everything makes you fat. Graduated high school with a 4.0 and college with 3.6. I’m in high school and a few years ago I had to watch my grandpa fall victim to Alzheimer’s and a little bit of dementia. 7. I'm trying to be really open with people about who I am, rather than present some better version of myself that maybe people would want to be around. Just take care of yourself. Syay woke! [–]Tycoda81 201 points202 points203 points 1 year ago (12 children). [–]iknowiknow138 19340Answer Link1933 points1934 points1935 points 1 year ago* (62 children). [–]Panino87 46 points47 points48 points 1 year ago (8 children). I have, however, recently experienced back pain for the first time. 0. REDDIT and the ALIEN Logo are registered trademarks of reddit inc. π Rendered by PID 16100 on r2-app-0bf57e1f6bf008a9d at 2021-02-23 11:37:38.680746+00:00 running 81a1eda country code: PT. Parents are just normal people who tried their best to debate political ideas or candidates Black_Lightnin 1016 points1018! The lame news: even though nobody cares they 'll all still you! 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